Gay Bars near Costa Mesa, CA

“Such a fun time tonight. Great bartender. We’ll made drinks. !“

“So this happened Friday night braddah’s and sista’s (Frat House Garden Grove “The return of the Sicilianswinger Tom you betta ask somebody!! Tonight 10 June 2022 9pm doors open tell them The Sicilianswinger Tom sent you). I went to an amazing piece of OC LGBTQIA Community history opened in 1985 by Ted Heier one of the first, and only bar/clubs like it for many years in Orange County. Still is one of very few. Ted Heiers legacy lives on through his amazing family and friends who still run it with all the safe warm and positive uplifting spirit the Frat House has always been known for. I know I used to frequent this place with all my friends in the 90’s… oh no showing my age!! 🤣 This place was always a secure, safe, positive supporting space for so many amazing for a lot of us native Southern Californians and Visitors to come and really let your hair down, and get loose!! I saw a lot of amazingly hot couples and singles of all diversity’s represented. Most of my lifestyle couples and single friends used to love this place and it seems to still be providing that safe secure fun positive vibe to this day. Oh ya for all my Braddahs and Sista’s in arms they really know how to take care of us military trust me let them know you are valid ID required, and they will be sure you get some real VIP treatment.. so come on up from Camp Pendleton, even all the way from 32nd street get a room close to the club this place is definitely worth it!! For all my lifestyle braddahs and sistas this place is the real deal just small enough to really enjoy all of it to its full potential and just big enough well you know…. 😉 they’re are only open Fridays and Saturday nights for now, just trying to recover from the last few years of Covid etc. However I’m very confident this place will be opening up again more days and hours real soon!! I’d like to give a Specail thanks to Ted’s Daughter Shelly her husband Johnny, her best Freind and operations manager Chris, all the bartenders Janet, Eric, Cristina (Ricardo), and victor for the attentiveness shown to me and all the patrons equally there that evening. Also last but not least the DJ who was on point playing some of the best Progresive/ and old school latin variations of genre’s keeping the mood continuously groovy!!“