Gay Bars in New York, NY

“The restaurant was dark and extremely loud. My friend and I could barely hear each other from across the table. The server was very friendly. There was a Wednesday happy hour deal on drinks so the meal was very affordable. I'd go again.“

“My husband & discovered Uncle Charlie’s a few years ago on a trip & now it’s a must for us every time we visit NYC. We like that it’s less touristy & more of a local hangout than some of the other piano bars in town. The bartenders & local regulars are friendly, the drinks reasonably priced & we have always felt very welcome included as visitors.“

“Visited NY with some friends from SoCal, we went in expecting more of a gimmicky bar vibe but was pleasantly surprised with the atmosphere. It felt like a very homely-hole in the wall atmosphere. Chuck was our bartender and he was outstanding, fast and efficient, super welcoming. If you were going alone I’d hope you get his shift, he genuinely tries his darndest to connect all those coming here, and I think that’s what made and still makes stonewall what it is, a place for the community to socialize, relax, connect. Came in expecting to get only one drink but we stayed for hours.“

“I had an amazing time at cubbyhole. Everyone was so friendly and had amazing conversations with different interesting women. Also the lovely bartender went out of their way to make me a skinny margarita, thank you for the good lesbian times, will come back asap ❤️“

“Sunday Funday at 4 West Lounge is great fun for all. Host Angel Infiniti presents a late afternoon party with great house music ( Steve Travolta, Carlos Dali, & Frankie Paradise are 3 of the guest DJs). There are drink specials, great bites, & a fun loving crowd that loves to dance ( calling all who love to Vogue). Host Angel Infiniti is a warm, friendly, & quite the stylish host who brings the party uptown.“

“Absolutely amazing experience at FLEX NYC! From the moment we stepped in at 405 W. 51st Street, the vibe was electric yet welcoming — the perfect blend of fun, community, and energy. The bar itself is beautifully designed with great atmosphere and vibrant décor that sets the tone for an unforgettable night out. 

The staff were incredibly friendly and attentive throughout the evening. Whether it was recommendations on drinks or just great conversation at the bar, every interaction felt genuine and fun. The crowd was diverse and lively — a true reflection of NYC’s LGBTQ+ community — and the music kept the energy high without ever feeling overwhelming. 

Happy hour here is fantastic, and the drinks are both strong and reasonably priced. Whether we were winding down after a long week or kicking off a big night out, FLEX quickly became our go-to spot in Hell’s Kitchen. Can’t wait to come back!“

“Happy Hour is always fun. Great after work crowd.“

“Last Saturday I like so much the movie "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar" in the monitor 💪😌🤙“

“I had a wonderful New Years celebration this Wednesday/Thursday at Julius’ thanks to Helen and her wonderful staff!
Drink were great and very reasonably priced. Cash-only! But there is an ATM in the back (and more seating!).

Thank you again, we will be back!“

“Came on Thursday night for the first show, Jasmine Live, and had such a great time. One of the best things we did in NYC. Also funny, and great with the audience interaction.

Happy hour runs until 8pm. Show ended up starting around 9, but we were happy to have such great seats and have a drink beforehand.

Show itself was free, but don't forget to bring dollar bills for tipping the queens.“

“Nice group. Friendly bartenders“

“A wonderful time. I was recommended this bar by a local employee, specifically for the events they would host thru the month. I looked online and it turned out there was a game event hosted by the Gotham Kennel Club. Staff were friendly, liquor was tasty and reasonably priced, and the overall vibe was chill. I had a great time. Would visit again!

Addendum 2/10/26: I feel like ordering a Long Island Iced Tea in NYC is a recipe for getting messed up if the pours here are anything to say about that. Great time still, great booze, great people!“

“The bar next door was closed so we stumbled into Ty’s instead, and I’m so glad we did!! Both bartender and patrons were wonderfully kind and sweet. Immediately felt welcome. Music selection was great; instant good vibes. Will definitely come back next time I’m in NYC!“

“I’m from NOLA and have been several times in the past years when I come to New York and I love it more and more every time. Such a fun place to be.“

“Great neighborhood bar! Everyone is so friendly (Mason is the best!) so it’s a great experience every time. I have also met a lot of wonderful people from the neighborhood. You can’t beat their Happy Hour and lovely air conditioning in the summer. UES staple for sure.“

“The vibes are Correct! Come out and get into your Vers Era!“

“I don't understand those who write bad reviews for this place. Honestly, I am grateful to the owners and everyone who makes it happen. This place is warm and authentic in New York. I don't come here often, but I've known this place for over 7 years, and I have great respect for everyone 8n The Townhouse of New York!!!

Thank YOU ❤️ 😊 🙏🏻“

“The crowds are good and the drinks are just OK. But the bar is dirty, and it's overcrowded, looking like a fire trap waiting to happen. Clean your disgusting bathroom more. I can only speak for the men's room, but the women's room probably is just as bad. I give it 1 star.“

“Bowling. Drunk. This makes It 25 characters.“

“Awesome place !! ❤️❤️🎼🎼🍷🍷🙌🙌“

“G lounge is a fun place with a very diverse clientele.....some of the people complaining are probably just cheap and not used to not being the only cute dude in the room...but they all did the right thing, you don't like it..LEAVE....no one wants Debbie downers at a party, misery usually brings company!!!!“

“The food is locally sourced daily. They offer 4/5 delicious entrees with delectable sides. Service was warm & attentive. Can't wait to return!!!“

“Eagle has been one of the best gay spots to go out in NYC. The atmosphere is great, the music and DJs are always on point, and the drinks are solid. The bartenders are professional, the coat check is smooth, and the staff overall does a fantastic job.

But I especially want to recognize the security team. They are incredibly professional, polite, and always on top of their responsibilities. They make me feel safe and comfortable every time I’m there. Big respect to you guys—keep up the amazing work!“

“I always go here after work but today December 23 at 2:58 am I decide to go here after my company Christmas party and the security guy said they were already closed . It would be nice if they post the real time close. Because I payed 25 dollars uber going there thinking they close at 4 am .“

“I LOVE CLUB CUMMING. Colt and Nick were the kindest bar tenders, and even gave my boyfriend and I free, home made cookies! I was nervous on the way to the club because I can be socially anxious, but my boyfriend and I had the best time ever. I can’t wait to come back during an event! And to maybe meet Alan!“

“Saturday nights are fun I enjoy going to support my local drag gals and dance . definitely recommend checking it out Saturday or any night of the week . drinks are not that expensive for LES prices , and cover on Saturday is 5 $ . not bad at all“

“I have enjoyed this place for years“

“Jason was absolutely the best bartender that I’ve ever met. Always provided great service and was there to attend to everything I needed.

Had great conversation with him and made it one of my favorite places in the city to come to, will be coming again after this!“

“The Duplex is such a special and amazing place. The vibes are great. The staff is amazing— love John; he’s awesome. The piano player is in every evening and most of the staff sing while serving fabulous beverages— and they are so talented (both as incredible vocalists and mixing cocktails!)“

“I had to leave a review just because I’m so gagged people said they have bad service? Our bartender was so nice, the drinks are cheap, and it’s a cute little bar. It was definitely slower and barely anyone was here, but it’s also 9:30pm on a Monday.“

“Had a blast! Straight dude who was told about The Cock, and couldn’t leave New York without checking it out. Pretty simple exterior, massive rooster sign. Staff was welcoming and friendly from the moment we walked in. Top floor was a typical lounge, drinks were great. Downstairs is a different ballgame. Literally. But not for a moment did I feel unwelcome, not safe, or at all anything but another patron. Overall had an amazing night out with friends that included the cock. Had a blast, give it a try. Really wanted a tshirt but they were sold out :(“

“Go here to dance!! Went at around 10PM on a Friday night, and the dance floor was kinda dead until around 11PM, and then people really showed up. Drinks were not the strongest, but tasty, and the dance floor was huge and atmospheric. Also, great bathroom, and drag on and off. Definitely coming back!“

“Heck yeah! Loved this place, after we went to the shop next door and got some pumps. The pool table was fun and not crowded on a saturday. Although the balls kind of dissppeared in the table on the third game. Well, thats what happens to balls at this place. Go LA Dodgers! Friendly staff. Love yall! 🏳️‍🌈“

“Great atmosphere and best music! Wonderful experience 🤩“

“I’m from New York and been going for yearsss so trust me!
Best for happy hour to pregame/save money (it ends at 9pm)
Good for drag race viewings if you’re into that.
You want a wide array of music across different genres and a mixed crowd? Friday nights is for you!
You want to feel Latino for the night? Saturday nights is for you! (85% of the music is Latino so after awhile it’s like okay let’s switch it up in between)
Sunday nights is okay and chill 🤷🏻“